Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Support for Gay Marriage Amendment in California Slips!

I'll spare you from seeing every picture of Kent and I together as a couple but I am going to share a few with you throughout the following article that was sent to me by my Mom who lives in California. It has to do with the California Proposition seeking to outlaw same sex marriage.



Kent and I have been a couple for 11 years. We would love to have the right to get married. We have registered as domestic partners which is now legal in the state of Washington but same sex marriage is still not an option in our state. I hope by sharing these pictures people will see that we are just average guys who happen to be gay who have fallen in love. It totally baffles me why people who do not even know me would want to deny us the right to marry. The argument that it undermines the "family" is old and tiring. Granted two men or two women getting married is different than the norm, but wrong - I don't think so!

Read on, it leaves me hopeful.............

SAN FRANCISCO -- A ballot initiative seeking to outlaw same-sex marriage in California lost support among voters after the state attorney general revised its wording to explain that the measure would rescind gay couples' newly won right to wed, according to a poll released Thursday.



The Field Poll of 830 likely voters found that the share of the electorate backing Proposition 8 fell during the last two months, with 38 percent of those surveyed saying they intend to vote for the measure compared to 42 percent in early July.


Opposition to Proposition 8 increased during the same period, the poll found. A solid majority of the likely voters -- 55 percent -- said they would vote against the same-sex marriage ban, compared to the 51 percent who opposed the initiative in the July poll.


"It's its clear that when Californians learn what Proposition 8 will do, which is eliminate an existing constitutional right from one targeted group of people, they move toward voting 'no'," said Geoffrey Kors, executive director of the gay rights group Equality California.



Also known as the Marriage Protection Act, Proposition 8 would amend the state constitution to limit marriage to a man and a woman. If passed, it would overturn the California Supreme Court decision that made the state only the second in the U.S. to legalize same-sex marriage.


Field Poll director Mark DiCamillo said the poll showed that Attorney General Jerry Brown's July 25 decision to change the proposed amendment's phrasing to reflect that same-sex marriage was now legal played a role in eroding public support for the measure.
Before the Supreme Court issued its sweeping decision on May 15, the referendum's sponsors qualified it for the November ballot under the title "Limit on Marriage." Its original summary was confined to the exact language that would be inserted into the constitution: "Only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California."


Brown's office said that language was no longer a sufficiently accurate description once the court's ruling took effect and rewrote the title and summary to say the proposition would "eliminate the right of same-sex couples to marry." The measure's backers sued, arguing that the new phrasing unnecessarily prejudiced voters against the measure, but a judge sided with the attorney general.


To gauge the effect on voters, the Field Poll read one half of its respondents the original language and the other half the revised version. Among the 70 percent of likely voters who already were familiar with Proposition 8, the modification appeared to make little difference. Among those who knew about the amendment, 56 percent said they opposed it when they heard the original wording and 53 percent opposed it they were given Brown's revised version.


But among the 30 percent of those surveyed who were not previously aware of the measure, the ballot language appeared to matter. Within that subgroup, 42 percent of the respondents said they were inclined to vote 'no' with the original summary, a share that climbed to 58 percent under the new wording.


"I would hazard a guess that it's the words 'Eliminates the right to do something' that is a stimulus in their making a judgment," DiCamillo said. "Whatever the right is, generally speaking, voters are in favor of individual rights. ... So I do think there is a negative drag in that compared to the original wording for those who are not paying attention."

Jennifer Kerns, a spokeswoman for ProtectMarriage.com, the coalition of religious and social conservative groups that put the measure on the ballot, said the poll results were not surprising.
"It's not surprising given the attorney general's latest attempt to influence the elections. We were expecting it would affect the numbers by a few percentage points," Kerns said.
At the same time, she said the Yes on 8 campaign's internal polling shows voters to be much more evenly divided.



If you know Kent and I or if this has changed your opinion in any way - the next time someone makes a negative comment about gays, step up and let them know that you know a couple of guys that deserve the right to marry! Write your representative and support candidates that don't discriminate! I would appreciate it!

Later -

Jim

4 comments:

  1. You know that I am just standing at the ready, waiting to create the most fabulous wedding invitations! Not to mention picking out my bridesmaid dress! Or would I be the best man...er...woman? Either way, I would love the opportunity to witness your union...legally. I truly hope I get to see the day...SOON! Okay, enough, you actually got me a little misty eyed reading this post!

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  2. You made me cry. Why do "they" even care what you do? Makes me sad. Jennifer looks really good in teal, aqua and plum :-)

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  3. I am working on the ceremony, my heart,love and pride wil be interwoven with the two of you. You have such wonderful supportive friends. I wish I could hug them all. Love Mom

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  4. Sorry Jennifer and Hollie, now you have made it to difficult for Jim to choose, how could he not want his favorite sister as an attendant too? Let's face it the list is way to long of all the people who love and support you two, so no attendants, but if you must choose 2 witnesses to sign, may I suggest a lottery? See what you have started now Jim, and for the record I have for a long time spoken up in favor of same sex marriage. As a matter of fact, I have made such poor choices in the past of men, I'm thinking I've been choosing the wrong sex, what do you think? Love Midge

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